Singleness would be recognized as a vital stage of the journey to maturation, a time to learn about who we are, to learn responsibility and self-sufficiency, to identify our true desires, and to confront our inner strengths and demons.

We are born in relationship, we are wounded in relationship, and we can be healed in relationship.

Conflict is the alchemical soup that transforms raw emotion and instinct into pure gold.

We always marry someone for the purpose of finishing our childhood.

When we meet an Imago match, that chemical reaction occurs, and love ignites. All other bets, all other ideas about what we want in a mate, are off. We feel alive and whole, confident that we have met the person who will make everything all right.

The depth of our love can be measured by our efforts. We demonstrate our love when we take that extra step.

Every therapeutic intervention is an act of social transformation.