The heart becomes wide by forgetting self, but narrow by thinking of the self and pitying one's self. To gain a wide and broad heart you must have something before you to look upon, and to rest your intelligence upon - and that something is the God-ideal.
Hazrat Inayat KhanIt is a very high stage in the path of love when man really learns to love another with a love that asks no return.
Hazrat Inayat Khan