There's all kinds of reasons that you fall in love with one person rather than another: Timing is important. Proximity is important. Mystery is important. You fall in love with somebody who's somewhat mysterious, in part because mystery elevates dopamine in the brain, probably pushes you over that threshold to fall in love.
Helen FisherYou can really get poked in the back and not feel it very much, but just a feather around your lips and you really do feel it.
Helen Fisher