At first I assumed hate was the opposite of love. But it isn't. The opposite of love is indifference.
Helen FisherIt certainly would have been adaptive for ancestral man to have a chubby wife during stressful times of famine. Not only would she have had more calories to burn, and thus more energy and endurance, but since fat stores estrogen, she would have remained fertile for longer.
Helen FisherFor so many generations, a woman's only career path was to marry well and to marry up. Those days have changed.
Helen FisherA woman of 40 or 50 or 60 can take estrogen replacements, get facelifts, spend her money in bars.
Helen Fisher