Buddhism advises you not to implant feelings that you donโt really have or avoid feelings that you do have. If you are miserable you are miserable; that is the reality, that is what is happening, so confront that. Look it square in the eye without flinching. When you are having a bad time, examine that experience, observe it mindfully, study the phenomenon and learn its mechanics. The way out of a trap is to study the trap itself, learn how it is built. You do this by taking the thing apart piece by piece. The trap canโt trap you if it has been taken to pieces. The result is freedom.
Henepola GunaratanaEach step along the Buddha's path to happiness requires practising mindfulness until it becomes part of your daily life.
Henepola GunaratanaCivilization changes man on the outside. Meditation softens him within, through and through.
Henepola GunaratanaNo problem. You are not crazier than you were yesterday. It has always been this way, and you just never noticed.
Henepola GunaratanaReal peace comes only when you stop chasing it. When you relax your driving desire for comfort, real fulfillment arises. When you drop your hectic pursuit of gratification, the real beauty of life comes out. When you seek to know the reality without illusion, complete with all its pain and danger, that is when real freedfom and security are yours.
Henepola Gunaratana