If I were to let my life be taken over by what is urgent, I might very well never get around to what is essential.
Henri NouwenFear is the great enemy of intimacy. Fear makes us run away from each other or cling to each other but does not create true intimacy.
Henri NouwenSuffering invites us to place our hurts in larger hands. In Christ we see God suffering โ for us. And calling us to share in Godโs suffering love for a hurting world. The small and even overpowering pains of our lives are intimately connected with the greater pains of Christ. Our daily sorrows are anchored in a greater sorrow and therefore a larger hope.
Henri NouwenOnly in the context of the great encounter with Jesus can a real authentic struggle take place. The encounter with Christ does not take place before, after, or beyond the struggle with our false self and its demons. No, it is precisely in the midst of this struggle that our Lord comes to us and says, as he said to the old man in the story: โAs soon as you turned to me again, you see I was beside you.โ
Henri Nouwen