To forgive another from the heart is an act of liberation. We set that person free from the negative bonds that exist between us. As long as we do not forgive we pull them with us, or worse, as a heavy load. The great temptation is to cling in anger to our enemies & then define ourselves as being offended & wounded by them. Forgiveness, therefore, liberates not only the other but also ourselves. It is the way to the freedom of the children of God.
Henri NouwenYou don't think your way into a new kind of living. You live your way into a new kind of thinking.
Henri NouwenThe beatitudes say, "Blessed are the poor". They don't say, "Blessed are those who care for the poor."
Henri Nouwen