It's difficult to judge other actors, because as an actor you're looking at different things than what an audience is looking at.
Henry CavillI go to work, I do a job, I play a role, and then I go home. I don't wear a cape at home. I'm not an invulnerable alien at home.
Henry CavillI'm a giant softy, for sure, but I honestly think these days it's probably considered more masculine to be emotionally connected.
Henry Cavill