Values are sometimes worth living and dying for, and are certainly worth dating and breaking up over.

A person who hasn't grieved a significant loss has unfinished business inside and can cause others great grief as a result.

Diligence is not easy, but we can't reach our goals without it.

If you continue to blame other people for “making” you feel guilty, they still have power over you, and you are saying that you will only feel good when they stop doing that. You are giving them control over your life. Stop blaming other people.

You have to be able to face losing some things you might want in order to be free to do the right thing.

Spouses in healthy relationships cherish each other's space and are champions of each other's causes.

The business of church is ultimately people. You're trying to heal people, grow people, teach people, and mend people. And when leaders spend all of their time helping and growing other people, they ignore their own growth.