Today I acknowledge that I am not in position to judge what mistakes anyone is making or what lessons anyone needs to learn. I don’t know how far someone has come or when that person will have a breakthrough, I simply don’t know what other people should be doing. But when I think I do know, I clearly am not doing what I should be doing, which is taking responsibility for my own life.

What an absurd amount of energy I have been wasting all my life trying to find out how things 'really are', when all the time they weren't.

Being myself includes taking risks with myself, taking risks on new behavior, trying new ways of 'being myself', so that I can see who it is I want to be.

Support your friends - even in their mistakes. But be clear, however, that it is the friend and not the mistake you are supporting.

Just when I think I have learned the way to live, life changes.

My prayer is: I will be what I will be, I will do what I will do.

A messy mortal is my friend. Come walk with me in the mud.