Exercise power by means of kindness, and you may be causing more damage than you could by cruelty. Neither approach is correct.
Idries ShahBut one may say something and yet not be able to do it. Try, for instance, lifting yourself up by the bootstraps.
Idries Shah... when we are talking about 'Christians' and 'Moslems' we must first make sure that we are talking about people who have an idea, which should be more or less correct, as to what the other is supposed to believe and what he is expected to do as a consequence of that belief.
Idries Shah