As a doc, though, I've seen what happens when people are under a lot of stress. Doesn't always bring out their best. When people are scared, they get angry. They'll do things they never thought they would. They'll bargain and compromise in order to survive; they'll chase after miracle cures and believe just about anything so long as it gives them hope. When hope fails, then watch out. Some people get brutal. They'll turn on each other; they'll become their own worst enemies.
Ilsa J. BickThey call it the drowning instinct. It's when drowning doesn't look like drowning. (pg. 241)
Ilsa J. BickThe familiar was usually invisible; how many people really noticed everything they saw?
Ilsa J. BickBut sticking to rules just because they're there does not make them right. You need to learn when the rules should be broken.
Ilsa J. BickAs a doc, though, I've seen what happens when people are under a lot of stress. Doesn't always bring out their best. When people are scared, they get angry. They'll do things they never thought they would. They'll bargain and compromise in order to survive; they'll chase after miracle cures and believe just about anything so long as it gives them hope. When hope fails, then watch out. Some people get brutal. They'll turn on each other; they'll become their own worst enemies.
Ilsa J. Bick