The only complicated things worth fighting for will change the world in some way and/or make you lots of money, and a complicated relationship will only keep you from doing either.

Never play the Devil's Advocate. Your words could be the difference between success and failure in someone else.

Some people change. Most people don't. Accepting this makes it much harder for them to disappoint you.

If you aren't happy with your life, change things until you are... if you can't change something, change your attitude about it.

Once you acknowledge that reality is not your enemy, it will no longer be your enemy.

Insecurity isn't an attractive quality in a man.

If it isn't going to matter to you in 5 years, quit stressing about it. (Also, quit b*tching about it. It might matter when you're all alone in 5 yrs because you're annoying now.)