I have used the word "attention," which I borrow from Simone Weil, to express the idea of a just and loving gaze directed upon individual reality. I believe this to be the characteristic and proper mark of the active moral agent.
Iris MurdochThere is nothing like early promiscuous sex for dispelling life's bright mysterious expectations.
Iris MurdochThere is no substitute for the comfort supplied by the utterly taken-for-granted relationship.
Iris Murdoch