A long marriage is very unifying, even if it's not ideal, and those old structures must be respected.
Iris MurdochTime can divorce us from the reality of people, it can separate us from people and turn them into ghosts. Or rather it is we who turn them into ghosts or demons. Some kinds of fruitless preoccupations with the past can create such simulacra, and they can exercise power, like those heroes at Troy fighting for a phantom Helen.
Iris MurdochThe absolute yearning of one human body for another particular body and its indifference to substitutes is one of life's major mysteries.
Iris MurdochWords are the most subtle symbols which we possess and our human fabric depends on them.
Iris Murdoch