A long marriage is very unifying, even if it's not ideal, and those old structures must be respected.
Iris MurdochThere is a gulf fixed between those who can sleep and those who cannot. It is one of the greatest divisions of the human race.
Iris MurdochThe bottomless bitter misery of childhood: how little even now it is understood. Probably no adult misery can be compared with a child's despair.
Iris Murdoch