The bottomless bitter misery of childhood: how little even now it is understood. Probably no adult misery can be compared with a child's despair.
Iris MurdochPeople who boast of happy marriages are, I submit, usually self-deceivers, if not actually liars.
Iris MurdochThe human soul is not framed for continued proximity, and the result of this enforced neighbourhood is often an appalling loneliness for which the rules of the game forbid assuagement.
Iris Murdoch