There is no substitute for the comfort supplied by the utterly taken-for-granted relationship.
Iris Murdochuntil I have been able to bury my head so deep in dear London that I can forget that I have ever been away I am inconsolable.
Iris MurdochTo lose somebody is to lose not only their person but all those modes and manifestations into which their person has flowed outwards; so that in losing a beloved one may find so many things, pictures, poems, melodies, places lost too: Dante, Avignon, a song of Shakespeare's, the Cornish sea.
Iris Murdoch