The bottomless bitter misery of childhood: how little even now it is understood. Probably no adult misery can be compared with a child's despair.
Iris MurdochOur actions are like ships which we may watch set out to sea, and not know when or with what cargo they will return to port.
Iris MurdochThe notion that one can liberate another soul from captivity is an illusion of the very young.
Iris MurdochI hate solitude but I am afraid of intimacy. The substance of my life is a private conversation with myself and to turn it into a dialogue would be equivalent to self-destruction. The company I need is the company which a pub or a cafe will provide. I have never wanted a communion of souls.
Iris Murdoch