Love is not all that is required in a relationship. It needs understanding, openness, kidness, patience, long-suffering

There is a lot of healing going on. Really! More people are vegetarians, more are in the green movement, more of us are tearing down the old paradigms and embracing same-sex marriage, single motherhood, men raising babies.

As we learn to see each other through our spiritual eyes, the physical differences will cease to matter.

Anger simply means that your personal power - your personal space, your personal sense of being - has been violated

I think as men begin to see things that address them, they will feel that they can relate. They can't relate to 'Basketball Wives,' 'Housewives of Atlanta.' I am not judging or criticizing those shows at all; what I am saying is the perspective is not necessarily the male perspective. 'Iyanla: Fix My Life' is inclusive of everyone.

People you don't love can't hurt you.

Black Girls rock because we have no other choice.