You can't just cry about the pain. You can't just pray about the pain. You must eliminate the pain.
Iyanla VanzantCriticism does not make you smarter or better than the one you are criticizing. In fact, the stuff you are critical of in others is the same stuff you don't like about yourself.
Iyanla VanzantBe aware that who you are and what you have to offer can be a beacon to some lost soul.
Iyanla VanzantAre you aware that your spirit needs to be fed? Did you know that your spirit would be delighted to partake in a feast of spiritual food? How about a plate full of prayer? Or maybe a few hours of succulent self-reflection. Perhaps a piping-hot selection of spiritual literature, served by the side of a lake or under a tree, would satisfy your spiritual hunger. Can you imagine feasting for a few hours on spiritually uplifting music? What about some forgiveness ร la mode, topped with compassion? You cannot imagine how much your spirit would enjoy it.
Iyanla Vanzant