One of the ways that people avoid taking responsibility for their role in their own pain is what I call the BPs - blame and projection.
Iyanla VanzantYou are never angry for the reason you think you are. There's an older hurt under that.
Iyanla VanzantAcknowledgemen t of what you feel, what you know, what you need is the first step toward healing.
Iyanla Vanzant