Prayer is asking for rain. Faith is carrying an umbrella. Faith is the inner sense of knowing that with divine order working on your side, all things will come together for your good. Faith is knowing that there is a divine plan and purpose for everything in life

If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him your plans.

Well the beauty of 'Iyanla: Fix My Life' is that men are in every show. To our surprise, some of the deepest healing demonstrations have been with the men - the sons, the fathers, the husbands - because they agree to participate with the wife or the daughter or whatever it is we are looking at, and it is there.

When you don't show up as who you are, people fall in love with who you're not. Then when they find out who you are, that's when they leave.

Never underestimate the ruthlessness of the ego to keep you in a state of suffering in which you voluntarily participate.

The only way to get what you really want is to let go of what you don't want.

We voluntary participate in things that we know are causing us harm because we believe we're powerless to do anything about it.