When you're nice to people, they want to be nice back to you.
Most everything that you want is just outside your comfort zone.
You have to commit to the what, before the how shows up.
Do it, delegate it, delay it, or dump it.
There is only one person responsible for the quality of life you live and that person is you.
To be 'on purpose' means you're doing what you love to do, doing what you're good at, and accomplishing what's important to you.