The near enemy of love is attachment. Attachment masquerades as love. It says, “I will love this person because I need them.” Or, “I’ll love you if you’ll love me back. I’ll love you, but only if you will be the way I want.” This isn’t love at all - it is attachment - and attachment is rigid, it is very different from love.
Jack KornfieldWhere we tended to be judgmental, we became more judgmental of ourselves in our spiritual practice.
Jack KornfieldWisdom says we are nothing. Love says we are everything. Between these two our life flows.
Jack KornfieldEverything has a beginning and an ending. Make peace with that and all will be well...In life we cannot avoid change, we cannot avoid loss. Freedom and happiness are found in the flexibility and ease with which we move through change.
Jack Kornfield