It's a bad thing that happens to women, but when you look at that term 'violence against women,' nobody is doing it to them. It just happens to them. Men aren't even a part of it.

We need to redefine strength in men, not as the power over other people, but as forces for justice.

We talk about how many women were raped last year, not about how many men raped women.

In corporate culture, in sports culture, in the media, we honor those who win at all costs.

Men are every bit as gendered as women.

We need more men with the guts, with the courage, with the strength, with the moral integrity to break our complicit silence and challenge each other and stand with women and not against them.

In real life, women dont enjoy being degraded and treated like objects/receptacles.