We talk about how many women were raped last year, not about how many men raped women.

Typical news accounts and commentaries about school shootings and rampage killings rarely mention gender.

There's been an awful lot of silence in make culture about this ongoing tragedy of men's violence against women and children... we need to break that silence, and we need more men to do that.

Elite athletes learn entitlement. They believe they are entitled to have women serve their needs. It's part of being a man. It's the cultural construction of masculinity.

We need more men with the guts, with the courage, with the strength, with the moral integrity to break our complicit silence and challenge each other and stand with women and not against them.

We need to redefine strength in men, not as the power over other people, but as forces for justice.

In corporate culture, in sports culture, in the media, we honor those who win at all costs.