In the end, we are only tiny frightened animals, doing our best to survive amid other tiny frightened animals.
James HollisThe capacity for growth depends on one's ability to internalize and to take personal responsibility. If we forever see our life as a problem caused by others, a problem to be 'solved,' then no change will occur.
James HollisTo experience some healing within yourself, and to contribute healing to the world, you are summoned to wade through the muck from time to time.
James HollisThe goal of individuation is wholeness, as much as we can accomplish, not the triumph of the ego.
James HollisIn moments of spiritual crisis we naturally fall back upon what worked for us, or seemed to work, heretofore. Sometimes this shows up through the reassertion of our old values in belligerent, testy ways. Regression of any kind is just such a return to old presumptions, often after they have been shown to be insufficient for the complexity of larger questions. The virtue of the old presumptions is that they once worked, or seemed to work, and therein lies if not certainty, then nostalgia for a previous, presumptive security. In our private lives, we frequently fall back upon our old roles.
James Hollis