My parents pressed upon me that "In this world, you are a black woman," so I was political about my hair and would not straighten it.

Often hair is the way we are differentiated in this culture. To me the decision to straighten your hair is deeply political.

My mother's white, and she didn't know how to do my hair, so I had something that I always call white-mama hair.

For black women our sense of ourselves is not always consistent with the way other people see us.

I've done lots of pieces on self-esteem and hair. There's a desire to conform, but if the encouragement to be yourself is there from loved ones, you'll find that later, that true self will come out.

When I have my Afro and walk down the street, there's no doubt that I'm black. With this [straightened] hair, if I talk about being black on air, viewers write and say, "You're black?!" I feel [straightening your hair] is giving up a sense of your identity. Let's be honest: It's an effort to look Anglo-Saxon.

My parents pressed upon me that "In this world, you are a black woman," so I was political about my hair and would not straighten it.