I'm a disciplinarian. I'm the tough love pet owner. I believe in very well-behaved animals.

We sit at our consoles and play "Gears of War", but we don't see images from war. We don't turn on the news and see the evidence of war, the result of war. Maybe twice a year, Memorial Day, Veterans Day, we'll go out, we'll hang our flags, we'll try to inculcate in our children some sense of national honor for the fallen. But really, we don't see it. We just don't see the pictures. There's no drive-by on the freeway of death up close. So we don't really see bravery.

I think my capacity to change has given me tremendous happiness, because who I am today I am completely content to be.

My kids are not interested in anything I do. And I mean that not in any dis to my children or dis to me. My kids have their own life, they could give a sh*t what I do.

I love performing and pretending - it's very easy for me.

The only two questions that need to be asked each day are: Did I live wisely? Did I love well?

I've been happily married to Chris for almost 20 years.