A single person is a manageable entity, whom you can either make friends with or leave alone. But half of a married couple is not exactly a whole human being: if the marriage is successful it is something a little more than that; if unsuccessful, a little less. In either case, a fresh complication is added to the already intricate business of friendship: as Clem had once remarked, you might as well try to dance a tarantella with a Siamese twin.
Jan StrutherPrivate opinion creates public opinion. Public opinion overflows eventually into national behavior as things are arranged at present, can make or mar the world. That is why private opinion, and private behavior, and private conversation are so terrifyingly important.
Jan StrutherTo visit a new country for the first time is great fun; but it is even greater fun to introduce somebody else to a country that you know.
Jan StrutherThe worst of gardening is that it's so full of metaphors one hardly knows where to begin.
Jan Struther