I grew up flying over oceans and moving and sailing.
When you're waiting for a bus, the thing to do is smoke a cigarette.
In order to have a real life of any romance, there has to be a level of fantasy.
I suppose you retire from trying. If you retire from trying, you think, "Maybe love will just come my way if I don't want it anymore."
I think sometimes to still be angry is appropriate, but you want to be able to live with it.
I know perfectly well that you can't not want anything and live.