I wasn't a hippie and I wasn't even a bohemian. I was extremely earnest and serious.
I don't want my wrinkles taken away - I don't want to look like everyone else.
I like to think both - it's not either/or. It's and.
Be a good example and hope the partner gets the hint. Any partner who would attempt to sabotage my fitness regime I would leave... wrong partner.
It's never too late - never too late to start over, never too late to be happy.
We cannot always control our thoughts, but we can control our words, and repetition impresses the subconscious, and we are then master of the situation.