But the whole point of liberation is that you get out. Restructure your life. Act by yourself.

So I grew up feeling that I wasn't good enough, and that no-one would love me unless I was perfect. But no-one's perfect, we're not meant to be perfect. We're meant to be complete. But it's hard to be complete if you're trying to be perfect, so you kind of become disembodied. And I spent a lot of my life that way.""And if you don't own your strength... Women like me tend to always look over their shoulder to see who... "Who's the leader? Who's the smart one?" Never thinking it might be ME. Took a long time for me to get over that.

I feel like when I was an adolescent, and felt so unworthy of love and so empty, I moved outside of myself.

Everyone should know that feeling of overcoming fear and mastering something. People who aren't taught that become soggy.

Men fear that becoming 'we' will erase his 'I.' For women, our 'we' is our saving grace Women's relationships are like a renewable source of power.

But the whole point of liberation is that you get out. Restructure your life. Act by yourself.

Seek women mentors. If you're a businesswoman, look at the TEDx conferences. There's a lot of businesswomen that speak on there. I find them extremely inspiring.