Bigotry and judgment are the height of insecurity.
We are a complex species to observe
I don't much care who is gay or straight or married or not. I mostly notice if they are brave enough to confront bigotry.
Anything that is non-violent is OK with me.
People in power need to control others in order to maintain power. One of the ways to do that is to take that which is threatening and demonize it.
The state and the church seldom approve of anything I do. I don't need their approval. I don't aspire to the heterosexual nuclear family model