I am very sad for men and women trapped in any relationship where there is cruelty, dominance, inequity. I long for the liberation of all people.

The building of friendship, family, community and love is complicated. We are so isolated in this country, no longer supported by tribes and villages.

Anything that is non-violent is OK with me.

The kitchen may not get cleaned, and I have to accept that. I do the important things.

If one is desperate for love, I suggest looking at one's friends and family and see if love is all around. If not, get a new set of friends, a new family.

There is no sexuality that is greater or lesser than another.

If black people mistrust white people, they are mistrusting racism, and that is appropriate.