Friends with benefits are neither.
Indecision is a decision.
The right relationship won't distract you from God. It will bring you closer to Him.
If you own pornography of any kind, for the love of your future spouse, trash it immediately.
If you decide to live a pure life, don't expect the world to understand your decision.
When you feel far from God and far from everything that you wanted to be for Him, realize that you still have your whole future to give Him.