Life…we understand it differently at different stages. It’s what is interesting about getting older, you realize your relationship with the past is always negotiable. There is a lot of freedom in that, because you realize you can go back to what you did such a long time ago. You can talk with the dead, talk with your lost self, your disappeared self, and you can visit those places again, and understand it differently. That makes a huge difference.

There is no sense in loving someone you can never wake up to except by chance.

As a writer, if you're prepared to work from your own wound, you're allowing people into the most vulnerable parts of yourself.

When we make a change, it's so easy to interpret our unsettledness as unhappiness, and our unhappiness as a result of having made the wrong decision. Our mental and emotional states fluctuate madly when we make big changes in our lives, and some days we could tight-rope across Manhattan, and other days we are too weary to clean our teeth. This is normal. This is natural. This is change.

The journey is not linear, it is always back and forth, denying the calendar, the wrinkles and lines of the body.

The people who decided in their wisdom that we're all going to go over to ebooks, they are not readers. These are technical people. These are people who think that somehow this is progress. It isn't. It's regressive.

Hopeless heart that thrives on paradox; that longs for the beloved and is secretly relieved when the beloved is not there.