Because there can be consequences for saying the first thing that pops into our heads, it is prudent to exercise tact.
Twins have a special bond. They feel safer with each other than with their peers.
Like a stone thrown into a pond, a good deed can create ripples that extend far beyond the initial splash.
The surest way to get what you need is to communicate.
What other people think is their problem.
Sometimes funerals and weddings bring out the worst rather than the best in people.