What other people think is their problem.
A man who doesn't make you feel special, wanted or important would make a very poor husband.
Because a jackass brays doesn't mean you have to take it to heart.
"Great guys" can make great husbands.
Men like women who are fun to be around, who are kind, intelligent, honest and who don't play games.
You have only one life to live, so live it without worrying about what others may think.