What I look for is a man who can be a friend, someone who is an equal and one with whom I feel comfortable. I want to be happy and loved, and not settling for something second best and less than I deserve. But a relationship of and by itself is not what is going to make this gal survive - a relationship is the cherry on the top of the cake

Am I lonely? Yes. Am I upset? Yes. Am I confused? Yes. Do I have my days when I've thrown a little pity party for myself? Absolutely. But I'm also doing really well. I'd be a robot if I said I didn't feel moments of anger, of hurt, of embarrassment... [but] You joke and say, 'What doesn't kill you makes you stronger'.

As my doctor said, eventually your eyes do start to give out on you if you're not taking care of them.

I'm a Pilates person. It's great. I had a hip problem. I had a chronic back, a pinched nerve and a hip problem and it's completely solved all of it. I love it. It makes me feel like I'm taller.

It's okay to treat yourself once in awhile. I'm not going to stop eating Mexican food!

I really kind of pride myself on figuring stuff out pretty quickly but I couldn't, couldn't. I just had no idea.

The greater your capacity to love, the greater your capacity to feel the pain.