My studies have shown that the process of falling into mature love happens in four steps. When you meet a woman, you subconsciously look for cues that she's the kind os person you should be with. That's assumption. If she passes the assumption test, you begin to get to know her to find out if she's appropriate for you. If she is, you're attracted. If, as you get to know her, the attraction is reinforced with joy or pain or both, you'll fall into infatuation. And if you manage to make a connection and attach to each other during infatuation, you'll move into mature, unconditional love.
Jennifer Crusiehave you ever met a woman you wanted to give everything to? just turn over everything you had? -Davy Dempsey-
Jennifer CrusieWhen Eve ate the apple her knowledge increased. But God liked dumb women so Paradise ceased. Gwen Goodnight. Her Work.
Jennifer CrusiePart of being a writer is defending your vision and not caving in to outside pressures.
Jennifer CrusieThis is a woman you've known less than twelve hours. It took you a year to pick out a couch, but you're seriouslyโ" โYes,โ Roger said. โShe's the one.
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