Everyone must go through all experiences but they need not go through them all in reality -they can do it vicariously, by imagination.
Jiddu KrishnamurtiI do not know if you have ever noticed that the more you struggle to understand, the less you understand any problem. But, the moment you cease to struggle and let the problem tell you the whole story, give all its significance - then there is understanding, which means, obviously, that to understand, the mind must be quiet.
Jiddu Krishnamurti