After all you grow by experience. But while your son is young, you should try to set before him his ultimate goal.
Jiddu KrishnamurtiThe real is near, you do not have to seek it; and a man who seeks truth will never find it. Truth is in what is - and that is the beauty of it. But the moment you conceive it, the moment you seek it, you begin to struggle; and a man who struggles cannot understand. That is why we have to be still, observant, passively aware.
Jiddu Krishnamurti