Gratitude is what starts the receiving process.
The only healthy communication style is assertive communication.
My suggestion would be to walk away from the 90% who don't and join the 10% who do.
You cannot succeed by yourself. It's hard to find a rich hermit.
All values must be won by contest, and after they have been won, they must be defended.
Take time to gather up the past so that you will be able to draw from your experience and invest them in the future.