It's easier to get rich than it is to explain not getting rich.
What you give becomes an investment that will return to you multiplied at some point in the future.
My suggestion would be to walk away from the 90% who don't and join the 10% who do.
Time is the best kept secret of the rich.
If you don't feel well, tell your doctor, but not the marketplace.
The more you know the less you need to say.