God designed husbands and wives to complete each other, not to compete with each other.
The best marriage in the world is two servants in love. The worst marriage in the world is two masters in love.
If God gave you a strong personality it's for serving others not controlling them.
A man who sacrifices for his wife and serves her becomes much more attractive to her.
When you initiate romance in your marriage relationship, you communicate to your spouse that he or she is desirable to you.