We can win the struggle to avoid responsibility for our personal lives, but if we do, what we lose is our lives.

In order to plan your future wisely, it is necessary that you understand and appreciate your past.

At what age should one marry? As a rule of thumb, perhaps not until you are past the age of feeling strongly that you must marry.

We can win the struggle to avoid responsibility for our personal lives, but if we do, what we lose is our lives.

We find what we expect to find. We do not see the world as it is but as we are.

It takes an enormous amount of energy, creative energy withdrawn from the total economy of the person, to hold a trait underground, and, unfortunately, needs and drives do not go underground alone; they carry with them useful parts of the personality, depriving it of richness and the possibility of a variety of response.

There is no way of steering successfully between a failed situation and a failed self except by stopping and taking our bearings.