You can have whatever you want, as long as you don't need it.
By dismissing what could work, we dismiss our own growth. We dismiss what's possible.
You are the Michelangelo of your own life. The David you are sculpting is you.
Smile. It is sunshine to others.
You don't fear change. You fear the unknown. If you knew the future would be great, you'd welcome the change to get there. Well, the future IS great. Proceed.
Before you judge another, ask yourself if what you don't like in them is actually what you don't like in yourself.