You can have whatever you want, as long as you don't need it.
Uncomfortable doesn't mean bad, uncomfortable simply means you're doing something you haven't done before.
If you expect miracles in your life, then release any attachment to the outcome.
Success goes to those who dare to dream. And sometimes you have to take a little "scary action," as well.
If you aren't happy with yourself, find a way to be victorious over yourself.
Nonviolent Communication by Marshall Rosenberg is a great book teaching a compassionate way to talk to people even if you (or they) are angry.